Since we have past the days of our parental units as chaperones when we meet new people, and many of us live far from home, it is easy to go through a long-term relationship (or many) without our parents ever meeting this significant other.
But what do you do when your honey says it is time?
Being introduced to his or her parents can be a scary thing, no doubt. But think of the event as an opportunity to put on your best parent-meeting-face and see a little more of where your partner is coming from. Parents are a great window into who your significant other is, and why.
Whether the meeting is just dinner or a weekend in their hometown, here are a few tips on how to prepare.
1.) Be ready for anything.
Especially if you will be visiting the parents for more than a day. Potential happenings could range from flag football and a picnic to a nice night on the town. Bring an outfit for any range of event and an attitude to match. Your partner can also get inside information from the parental units on what they are planning so you will know ahead of time what to expect.
2.) Ask questions.
These are the parents of your boyfriend or girlfriend, not complete strangers, so ask them questions about what they do and what they love. They will appreciate the fact that you are genuinely interested in the family ties. Be sure to throw in some compliments here and there and maybe strike up some conversation about what you care about too.
3.) Finally, be confident.
You know who you are and the person who is bringing you to their parents is doing so to show you off. Demonstrate how much love there is between the two of you in the non-PDA way. Let them get to know you, even if it is the clumsy and slightly messy eater version of you.
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